I take the feedback I give students on their writing very seriously. In fact, I would argue that it is the most important thing I do as an English teacher. I spend hours (HOURS!) reading essays, making comments, identifying patterns, asking questions, and suggesting ways to strengthen an argument or sharpen an analysis. I want students to understand not just what isn't working, but why, and what they can do about it. I take great pride in my feedback, actually.
But yesterday, my students taught me something about feedback.